Why are some people more special than others?

There is this quote in Animal Farm that says "All Men are equal, but some more equal than others'

there is great wisdom from these words of George Orwell, while it is unfortunate and somewhat sad, i hear myself re-iterating this statement often.

i wonder what is it with some people, why is it when they say something I/people listen more closely, remember it, quote it, decipher it and all round mull about it.
What is in their charm,their charisma that does that??

Will i create the same effect on other people, or specifically on ppl that I want them to mull over the same exact conversation as I had, or do they juz treat it as another random coversation they have with some other person.

I do that a lot, treat some conversations I have had with ppl to be mere speaking/talking...no other additional value. ( I hope the people that I want to take what I said with thought, emotions will mull over).

So, why are some people more special than others? specifically why are some people more special than others to me..

of course, my parents/family have that effect on me. but i have known them for so long, and know exactly where i stand with them...I knoe they are special to me and I know I am special to them..

some of my friends have that effect on me too...

so..the real question is: Am I special (More Equal) to the person, that I think is more special and more equal.